Sexual Revolution 2017-18

These last few years have just opened the door to the subject of “SEX”. With all the gender issues, and open conversations, it sparks a time that all people now must shift.

Time Magazine Covers the Silence Breakers

All humans are sexual. They are born with some kind of gender that is marked by the genitals. Of course, there are rare cases where people are born with mix up, doubles or even nothing.

My friend Boudin has been talking my head off about the Gender Choice. Leave it to the folks in California to try to say that gender is a choice. Guess that is what comes of all that marijuana, he says. But his point is how our birth gender is not a choice. Not to list   gender on the birth certificate is forgery and may have concequences later. Who cares. No one looks at your birth certificate. Be who you want, what makes you happy.

To teach very young children they can decide is an abomination. How confusing can that be for a young mind and one that probably has no idea about fornication; a child will look at the physical evidence and wonder why they must choose.

Just look between your legs, that is what you are.

If you decide to change that through operations, I wonder do they actually have any touch sensations there, can some who has had their penis removed still orgasm?  What happens too all those nerve fibers, and connections under the skin that allow orgasms.

Sex is sex. No matter who you are, no matter how you use your sex, it is still just sex. Sex between who is a choice. Stroke here, lick there, touch this and that; there is a wonderful opportunity to explore sex and expand your sensual feelings.

In our world history, sex meant power over someone. That is what marriage is, a contract that the man owns the woman. Religions have made slaves of women throughout history. Women had less status than someone horse.

The abusive nature of man against woman has turned many women to couple with another woman. They feel safe. The same for men. Yet as I have heard, most gay men really enjoy being with other men. I think that is might be in our nature to really be able to have sex with either gender. The rules put upon us of old, were some kind of Control.

It has been a long road to get here. With all the world-wide communication, we are having a very large conversation. And it is about time.

Yet my conversation is not about the sexual equipment you are packing belowor they way you dress. It is not about what gender role you wish to play or live. It is not about the various ways of sexual activity. It is not about becoming some form of “trans”. All of that are the details of other people’s journeys and their working things out.

All I wish to add to this conversation is that what we all need to use and use daily is:

R E S P E C T.

Respect all people. That covers it.

For it is when people think they can force their idea upon another that becomes the violation, which sometimes escalates in to someone getting hurt or killed.

But now, publicly, we are talking about abusive behaviors. And what is more, people are losing their jobs over bad behavior. Something is happening here!

~ Rus



Gifts from a Stranger



As I was traveling through Austria, I had the best of conversations on the train with a man from the West Indies. Terrance said he grew up on the island of St. Lucia. He told me about fishing as a young dude.

He knew my home town and named one of my favorite restaurants right away. He worked as a trade dealer, he called it, connecting different makers with sellers and not having to work too hard. It meant he had to travel all the time and talk to so many  people, which he says is right by him. He loves it.

He wanted to see my work, including this blog and when he saw that my computer had stopped my progress, he said he wanted to give me his computer.


yoga comuter

He then pulled out a memory stick and took his data quickly. I was without words! His lap top looked new, although it was about a year old. It was called  Yoga as it can bend for use like tablets.


Then he handed it over to me. He told me to write boldly and help people feel good with the world. That over time he has seen people get so fearful out of nothing.

I was freaking out inside! Wow!

st christifer metal

I had almost enough money to buy a new one but here is a gift. I thought what could I give him?

I had a Saint Christopher metal on my neck, so I took that off and gave it to him. I told him it kept me safe in my travels and since he travels so much,  it just made sense.

Now although this man had a luscious brown skin, I swear he was blushing. He really was move by my gift. And it was more than the metal, it was like I was saying a pray for his future safety.

He held the metal in his hand and moved it over and over, looking at both sides, and I was looking at all the great software and apps he had installed on this computer gift.

I was nearly in tears. How can a stranger turn you to tears? By being human, being open to conversations, and hearings one’s story but even more than that was that he wanted to help me.

I was concerned about his business with out his laptop and he said he had another one at home. He can use that he said and he will be home within a few days.

There was a moment when we just looked at each other. Terrance was deep within his skin. The silence was sweet feeling.

Two more stops and I had to get off the train. I have Terrance’s computer and his contact information. I thanked him profusely and he in turn thanked me for the metal. With a few steps I was off the train and the train was leaving the station.

Computer in hand, I felt magnificent, as if God had a plan for me! Better yet is I now have someone who I can visit in St. Lucia, if he is there when I go. A computer and a friend, what gifts!

~ Rus





Works Only if We Share


“We should do away with the absolutely specious notion that everybody has to earn a living. It is a fact today that one in ten thousand of us can make a technological breakthrough capable of supporting all the rest.

The youth of today are absolutely right in recognizing this nonsense of earning a living. We keep inventing jobs because of this false idea that everybody has to be employed at some kind of drudgery because, according to Malthusian Darwinian theory he must justify his right to exist.

So we have inspectors of inspectors and people making instruments for inspectors to inspect inspectors. The true business of people should be to go back to school and think about whatever it was they were thinking about before somebody came along and told them they had to earn a living.”

~ R. Buckminster Fuller

Finer to Hear

man woman talk

“If a woman tells me: I love you because you’re intelligent, because you’re decent, because you buy me gifts, because you don’t chase women, because you do the dishes, then I’m disappointed; such love seems a rather self-interested business. How much finer it is to hear: I’m crazy about you even though you’re neither intelligent nor decent, even though you’re a liar, an egotist, a bastard.” ~  Milan Kundera

President of the Czech Republic Encourages Taking up Arms to Protect Themselves

While still in France, I have been hearing much talk about the confusion between helping refugees and also not helping them. Seems most of these refugees want alot out of the kindness of people and it is getting hard for country men and women to continue helping them. These people who left their own country might really be considered cowards, many say, leaving their own country behind and not defending it. Now they want daily handouts for free. Is this a natural or predetermined action?

So when these transients do not get their free feed, they act out like terrorists? Who knows? Or are these people really behind a purpose? Or are these people being manipulated for a darker agenda?

The European Union required that all nations give up their right to bare arms and leave all the guns to any armies. But the problems that came out of that are huge and the armiesmay not always be there for their people.

Milos Zeman, the President of the Czech Republic, tells citizens to arm themselves in order to defend against terrorism.

Quote: “In the wake of all the recent terrorist attacks, Czech President Milos Zeman reportedly  told his constituents that they should arm themselves for what he called a potential “super-Holocaust” carried out by Muslim invaders. He wants to make sure that people are able to defend themselves until help arrives. Shortly after he said this, the Czech government decided to show their support by proposing a law allowing citizens to fight back against terrorists using their own guns. They will vote on it later in the summer. If other countries did this, terrorist attacks would not be as widely devastating.

Earlier this week, for instance, knife-wielding terrorists killed seven people and injured countless others. Since the UK already has extremely strict gun laws, the pedestrians were largely helpless. To protect themselves, the best that some could do was throw bottles and chairs at the attackers. However, if any of the pedestrians had a gun, they could have easily stopped the attackers from hurting others.

And a week before the London bridge attack, terrorists invaded Marawi, a small city in the Philippines. Since the civilians were largely unarmed, the jihadists were able to break into jails and release captured extremists, steal guns and government vehicles, set fire to buildings, and kidnap helpless people. Undeniably, if the citizens were armed, the situation would have likely turned out much differently.”

It is becoming harder to travel these days.

~ Rus


Dig Out that Seed and See if it is Growing!

sproutIf you have planted seeds before, you know that when a seed sprouts it has very tender roots and if you dig it out to see them, you probably will break off some of the beginnings of this plant.

Now know I am not a President Trump supporter, I did not vote for him. Yet I wonder if people let him alone enough to makes his own roots in the oval office if perhaps we will see the best from him.

Media has to bash his every move and keep North Americans polarised, that is just what they do.

So I want to chime in on his movement to dump the USA involvement with the Paris Accord on Climate Change.

No one really got to read that Accord, did you?? The whole written agreement? President Trump did.


What did he see that he did not like for our country? An overburden on the USA that costs in ways we do not need to pay, is how it appears to be summed up.

Remember he is dumping the ole systems of control and manipulation through what appears to be good for people.

As a business CEO, now of the USA, he is working to revive our country with a different perspective than the previous lawyers that held this office. Can we give him some space to do this work?

So many north americans know how deeply corrupt and dishonest our government has been in the past, passing bills and laws that favor the rich and powerful. The Paris Accord is one such document, that does not benefit North America.

enviroment consciousness

We can still work on our Atmosphere and Enviroment together, we know what needs to be done. We do not need some law that binds us to paying out money to those who do not really care about climate change. This is what the Paris Accord is. It is an effort to bully money away from hard-working USA citizens for reasons we are never told.

Now it is also obvious that President Trump is clueless about the environment and sustainability practices, and that is where the citizens need due diligence. Know he had a certain background in which he probably never once went camping in our excellent public parks and knows only the insides of high dollar hotel rooms. This is where “we the people” must assist this administration to keep in mind the need for sustainability, even with or without climate changes.

Climates change, every so many decades, as it is the natural cycles of earth. Humanities heaviest burden of Earth is that of ignorance of these cycles and how to work with Earth to continue to supply us with our needs.


Replanting what we take, maintaining the quality of water and oceans, taking the time to recycle what we have and using only what we need helps to preserve resources for the future.

Take out 1000 forest trees and plant 3000 more, will keep the supply healthy. Any business knows not to ‘run out’ of the basic materials for their livelihood. So it is with Earth and the way nature works.

This is something that must be taught to every generation! When I see whole townships living with large garbage dumps, scurrying around the piles of stench like rats, I wonder where their parents were and why did they not get any teachings about health, and preserving cleanliness. There is a missing link there.

plastic boat

Convenience seems to overrule common sense, that when you drink out of 30 plastic bottles a month there is a creation of garbage. Where does that go?

No one thinks about it. Drink and toss. {Or make a boat!!??!!}

Now multiply that  times every piece of garbage any one household has and we have trash to the likes the world has never seen. Back 100 years ago this was not a problem!

This is NOT a government problem, but a problem on every community, township and city level. If our Earth is heating up due to mankind’s creations of cars and industry, there are ways to change it enough to harmonize with Earth.

But world-wide agreements and accords never insure the commitments of their people, just to superficial laws that few enforce those who seem out-of-bounds. It takes so much more than that.

Most of the public schools in the USA teach about recycling and basic environmental issues. We are moving in the right direction.

community work

Many schools also have community gardens for teaching and supplementing the cafeteria food.

Most children know not to pull up a plant to look at its roots as it will most likely die. Yet here we have someone who was voted and won to be our President and now all people are pushed to do it to remove him, before he can get good and necessary things done. How crazy is that?

dandilion roots

Can we apply this logic to our new president? Can we give him some room to really do the work he envisioned?

Yes, he is uncommon to this office and makes it hard for people to understand that to change things for the better, he needs to be uncommon.

“We the People” need to supplement and supply the “balance” of his work through our own communities.

It is time WE work out our concerns without running to daddy and whining helplessly.

We must model what we wish to see in our country, rather than keep bitching loudly. The cacophony of discord is not productive, and keeps many people focused on blaming some one for things they COULD do their own self.

Dump the Paris Accord on Climate Change and keep our President Trump rooted in his office so he can trim back the governmental spending so USA can be strong again.

Miniscule or Monumental?


“A complete stranger has the capacity to alter the life of another irrevocably. This domino effect has the capacity to change the course of an entire world. That is what life is; a chain reaction of individuals colliding with others and influencing their lives without realizing it. A decision that seems miniscule to you, may be monumental to the fate of the world.” ~ J.D. Stroube